One who forgives an affront fosters friendship, but one who dwells on disputes will alienate a friend.
When we are hurt it can be so difficult to forgive. We often nurse the hurt so that we can carry it with us. That only hurts us as well as the other person. We can’t continue to dwell on hurts but have to let them go. Doing so opens the chance for understanding and friendship.
Hear God in Other Voices 